Natasha Coulis: writer & thinker

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Here you’ll find courses, lessons, and free tools for liberation through truth telling and critical thinking. Everything here is grounded in logic, not ideology.

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The only resource anywhere addressing the true root source of motherhood shame, guilt, exhaustion, loneliness, trauma, and sacrificial cost: kyriarchal motherhood.

Targets a teen intellectual capacity. Explains with logic why we must allow people to self-define their sex and gender + how to manage the resulting complexity.

Learn why logic is the most moral tool we can use when making decisions for more than just ourselves. Learn how it preserves everyone's agency, and how simple it can be.

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SELECTED TIKTOKS

SAHM LABOUR CONTRACTS

Why stay-at-home-moms need labour contracts, and how to make one, what
to calculate

"GAY AGENDA": IMPOSSIBLE

Explaining why there can't be a queer agenda because being queer just is, like blue just is. There's only a hetero agenda.

WOMEN "NAG" FOR POWER

Why criticizing women in straight relationships for "nagging" lacks logical analysis of what's really happening

PRIVILEGE IS A SPECTRUM

Why political leaders from the middle class try to position middle class origins as being from "humble means."

ON MAKING MEN CARE

Using design thinking to help straight women decide how much effort to put into men, bypassing that they shouldn't have to.

WHY ARGUING SPIRALS OUT

Why debates or arguments spiral out so fast into frustrated chaos: We need to understand logic's architecture.

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FREE TOOLS FOR CLEAR THINKING & TRUTH TELLING

ARGUMENT LOCATOR

How to tell what you're actually arguing about: A short framework for escaping argument spirals

GASLIGHTING LOCATOR

Is this gaslighting or just conflict? A practical guide

BOUNDARIES LOCATOR

Boundaries vs. Control: A clarity guide for saying no without becoming the villain

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Interested in bringing my frameworks and values to a live setting?

I work with organizations, collectives, and groups who need help:

· clarifying what they’re actually arguing about

· building shared logical frameworks

· navigating conflict without collapsing into power games

This looks like workshops, facilitated sessions, or temporary advisory work—always grounded in compassion and logic, not ideology.

  • Vancouver, Canada

  • Time Zone: PST

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